- Do I feel unsatisfied?
Some people may feel that a meal just isn’t a meal without being anchored by meat, and there was a time when I might have agreed. My family dinners when I was growing up were very often based on the traditional American meat-and-potatoes. My mother was and is a great cook, but she mostly cooks like her mother, who didn’t stray too far from her family’s English traditions. And where I grew up in rural Oklahoma, there weren’t many opportunities to experience ethnic food other than "Southern" cooking and a bit of Southwest/Tex-Mex influence. One of the largest industries in my hometown was beef; chicken farming was pretty common as well. So there wasn’t much question as to whether meat was what was dinner — only what species.
Since then I’ve broadened my culinary horizons significantly. I’ve lived in or near good-sized cities (Oklahoma City, St. Louis, Seattle) for the past 12 years, where I’ve grown to love a diverse selection of ethnic foods. Some of my favorite dishes have meat, and some don’t, and until this change I didn’t really think about it. I can feel very satisfied and fulfilled after eating a falafil sandwich, vegetable yakisoba, or various tasty vegetarian South Indian dishes that I never remember the name of.
So vegetarian food is not innately unsatisfying to me. After eating a veggie meal I never feel like I missed the meat. Even now I don’t crave a steak dinner or anything like that. However, it can be a little more difficult to find a satisfying variety of vegetarian meals, which brings us to my next concern. - Do I feel restricted?
Whenever I would go to restaurants with vegetarian friends, I’d often notice that some restaurants had little more than a green salad and token veggie burger to offer them. So I’ve always had a concern that as a vegetarian living in a culture of meat-eaters, it would be difficult to find enough variety to keep meals interesting.
Fortunately, Seattle is one of the best areas in the U.S. to be vegetarian. People here are noticeably more liberal, health-conscious, and environmentally-friendly than in other parts of the country, and there are quite a few vegetarians, so it shows on local restaurant menus. Add to that the large concentration of vegetarian Indians in the vicinity of Redmond, and it’s pretty easy to find good vegetarian food around here.
Still, I do feel a little bit restricted when I limit myself to looking at only a small percentage of a menu that has many potentially-tasty items containing meat. While often a simple request to the server can open up a few more meat-free options (and around here nobody flinches at such requests), I’m still left with a lot fewer choices than the omnivore next to me. Luckily, I’m stubborn enough to not let it bother me much. - Do I feel inconvenienced?
I like most fruits and vegetables well enough, but I like them a lot better when they’re fresh. Who doesn’t? The problem seems to be that obtaining and consuming more fresh fruits and vegetables requires more frequent trips to the grocery store and a little more meal preparation time at home. Vegetarian dishes prepared from canned or frozen ingredients seem to be pretty bland, whereas that isn’t as much of a problem with meat dishes. So I’ve found it difficult to shop for more than a few days at a time, and I have to plan my meals accordingly so that I eat most things before they spoil. And then I have to spend time cleaning, chopping, and otherwise preparing those vegetables. Maybe it’s not more preparation time than meat would be, except I find myself cooking at home a little more because as I mentioned above there are fewer good options for take-out vegetarian food.
Since I’m a single guy who’s usually busy with work or sports or various other activities, you can imagine how much time I want to spend on food preparation: as little as possible. I’m not lazy (okay sometimes I am but that’s beside the point), but it’s difficult to justify expending a lot of effort just to feed myself. While I may be a little more skilled in the kitchen than your stereotypical bachelor, I don’t really get satisfaction out of cooking unless I know others are going to appreciate the results. Thus I eat a lot of take-out food, and most things I prepare at home are quick and easy.
I think this issue is the biggest problem I have with a vegetarian lifestyle — it just doesn’t conveniently fit in with the rest of my life and my surroundings. But, it may be something that could improve with research and practice. I could experiment to find easier, tastier, less perishable options for home-cooked vegetarian meals. And I’m sure there must be more places around here to get good vegetarian takeout food. I just haven’t found many good options outside my mainstays of Qdoba, Quiznos, and, umm… Taco Bell. :) Does anybody have more suggestions?
So there are the reasons why I might not want to be vegetarian. Again, there’s nothing terribly conclusive. However, all three of those reasons might carry a little more weight if I wasn’t blatantly cheating. Stay tuned for a future blog entry where I examine my cheating ways, consider whether I can stop cheating, and eventually get back to what I think are my real motivations for continuing vegetarianism, or not.